爱的迷惑和魅力

畅意源

    爱这个词很不好定义，准确地说，是不可定义的。

   

    虽然每个人心中都有一个谱子，都有体验，也似乎都明白爱是什么，但是，爱的本身，却从来没有让人揭秘过。

   

    爱在文学和艺术上，一直而且永远都是一个主题。

   

    可是，这个语言范畴解释不了的爱，人类用过很多别的角度和方式去探索过：

   

    哲学，社会学，宗教，心里学，精神分析学，生物学，甚至于现代的神经学。

   

    而这个谜，当然还是没有，应该永远也不会给解开。

   

    这个不是悲哀，而是人成为人的特色，人能够不死的动力。

   

    想象一下，人什么都懂了，人的过去，人的未来，人的爱，那么，人是否还有那么强烈的活的冲动，探索的热望，或者说一种动心的期盼，一个虽然永远解不开，但是永远拥有的梦？

   

    未必。

   

    爱情只是爱的一个分支，或者一个表象，而且是一个非常直接，切身，频繁的表象。

   

    因为这个，爱情比爱的定义还要让人困扰，还要因人而异。

   

    对有些人，爱是一把火，是火花的碰撞，迸发；

   

    对有些人，可能是大海暗流；

   

    对有些人，又是小溪潺潺；

   

    而对很多人，爱情可能是一种运气，一个探索的旅程，一个不断寻觅，发现，重新发现，再度寻觅的艰难的，没完没了的旅程。

   

    也就因为这个没完没了，我们一路走着，一步步走近，走进，走过自己的人生。

   

    而这整个过程，不管你承认不承认，喜欢不喜欢，珍惜不珍惜，爱或者爱情，永远没有离开你。

   

    这个过程，而不是结果，恐怕就是为人的美丽，也就是爱的永恒的魅力吧。

   












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