爱的迷惑和魅力
爱这个词很不好定义,准确地说,是不可定义的。虽然每个人心中都有一个谱子,都有体验,也似乎都明白爱是什么,但是,爱的本身,却从来没有让人揭秘过。
爱在文学和艺术上,一直而且永远都是一个主题。
可是,这个语言范畴解释不了的爱,人类用过很多别的角度和方式去探索过:
哲学,社会学,宗教,心里学,精神分析学,生物学,甚至于现代的神经学。
而这个谜,当然还是没有,应该永远也不会给解开。
这个不是悲哀,而是人成为人的特色,人能够不死的动力。
想象一下,人什么都懂了,人的过去,人的未来,人的爱,那么,人是否还有那么强烈的活的冲动,探索的热望,或者说一种动心的期盼,一个虽然永远解不开,但是永远拥有的梦?
未必。
爱情只是爱的一个分支,或者一个表象,而且是一个非常直接,切身,频繁的表象。
因为这个,爱情比爱的定义还要让人困扰,还要因人而异。
对有些人,爱是一把火,是火花的碰撞,迸发;
对有些人,可能是大海暗流;
对有些人,又是小溪潺潺;
而对很多人,爱情可能是一种运气,一个探索的旅程,一个不断寻觅,发现,重新发现,再度寻觅的艰难的,没完没了的旅程。
也就因为这个没完没了,我们一路走着,一步步走近,走进,走过自己的人生。
而这整个过程,不管你承认不承认,喜欢不喜欢,珍惜不珍惜,爱或者爱情,永远没有离开你。
这个过程,而不是结果,恐怕就是为人的美丽,也就是爱的永恒的魅力吧。
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