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    漫长岁月,要坚信,婚姻不一定是爱情的坟墓!男女相爱,甜蜜的爱必须拥有哪些心态?说出自己的心声和今日感慨,支持的请顶起,有不同意见的欢迎多多指教!

    1.要知足常乐 漫长岁月,我一直说,知道满足,就容易快乐.天外有天,楼外有楼,人比人,气死人.本来你那位已经是不错的老公或老婆,可有些人喜欢拿别的人来衡量自己爱的人,殊不知,你本身拿来衡量的尺子就是残缺的.因为在这个世界上,没有绝对完美的人,更没有绝对完美的爱.人有十节草,总有一节不好.同理,人有十节草,总有一节好.多想对方的优点,那样就容易知足常乐了.

    2.多换位思考 俗话说得好,横看成岭侧成峰,远近高低各不同.很多时候,我们的心境取决于我们看待事物的方式和角度.比如说,有些男人嫌女人要男人买房买车,就觉得天下女人都贪得无厌.如果这时你换位思考下,我如果是女人,会去找怎样的男人呢?也比如说,有些女人嫌男人买不起房子,买不起车,就觉得对方没用.如果这时你换位思考下,我如果是男人,买房买车很容易吗?你为经历过的一些事而苦恼不堪,而后你会不会觉得荒唐可笑呢?多方面思考我们周围的世界,对我们进行生活的自我审察有益无害.记得,站在不同的角度上,多换位思考.

    3.敢于沟通交流 漫长岁月,我一直说,漫漫人生路,沟通交流也是人生最大的乐趣之一.相爱的人之间有分歧.有吵架现象,都是正常的.天下基本没有不吵架的爱,吵架并不可怕,可怕的是爱出冷战.爱出现问题,要敢于沟通交流.把一切危害双方爱的隐患根除.沟通交流是我们抚爱别人的最好方式,最有效的沟通交流就是把全部注意力集中在谈话者身上.这样可以更加的了解对方,知道对方的心声,看法.有些爱沟通交流后才知道是误会.有时,误会也会毁灭爱.

    4.适当的宽容豁达 漫长岁月,世界上最宽阔的是海洋,比海洋更宽阔的是天空,比天空更宽阔的是人的心灵.宽容豁达给予我们再去爱的机会,又帮助我们敞开心怀,既能给予爱,又能接受爱.当然,宽容豁达也要有度,要有底线,否则就是软弱放纵.有些我们可以莞儿一笑,或警告下就可以了.比如男人应酬抽烟,喝酒,在家袜子乱丢等.女人爱逛街,爱买化妆品,做美容,爱花钱等.如果因这些事闹离婚分手是不明智的.有时爱需要睁一只眼,闭一只眼,如果你两只眼睛一直睁得大大的去审视对方,想让爱甜蜜,真的好难.但有些却不能太过分宽容豁达,如外遇,家庭暴力,嗜,酗酒,吸毒等.一定要让对方知道对自己的伤害有多大.否则太宽容豁达,会让对方变本加厉.

    5.拥有感恩戴德的心 漫漫人生路,当我们在爱情,事业等取得成功时,一定不要忘记了你的另一半,对他(她)要有感恩戴德的心.你要想,没有对方的辛劳汗水,可能也没有你自己美好的今天.感恩周围的一切,包括坎坷,困难,挫折,磨难和我们的敌人.事物不是孤立存在的,没有周围的一切,可能就没你的存在.怀着爱心吃素菜,胜过怀着恨吃牛肉.心中装满感恩,满足装满心中.甚至有时也去感恩曾经伤害过你的人,因为她(他)磨练了你的意志.

    6.多为对方着想 爱过知情深,失去知珍惜,深爱对方,就要多为对方着想.男人要象男人一样去战斗,为了自己深爱的女人,过得更加的幸福快乐,自己苦些累些也何仿?而女人,要为男人创造温暖的家.男人也需要女人的关爱和安慰.世人无数,能相爱也是缘分,多为对方着想,要珍惜爱,不要意气用事,以免往后有悔恨.

    7.凡事都要有度 无论我们做什么事,都要对得起自己的良心,要用心无愧.要懂得适可而止.把握好界线,要有自己的原则.把握好爱的度,才能让爱恰到好处.为什么有些人十分爱他(她),反而让人家觉得好累?为什么有些人你原谅他(她)好多次,可还是让你失望?为什么有些水果多吃伤身?等等,太多了.凡事都要有度吧!

    8.多从自身找原因 漫漫人生路,随着时间的推移,爱难免会出现这样或那样的问题.爱出现问题,不要一味地去责难对方.首先要静下心来找找自己有哪些不足?多找出自己的不足,错则改之.那样能让爱更完美.而不是出现问题.打比方,别一便秘就怪地球没引力.爱如果只一味的责怪对方,怪这怪那,容易让爱质变.看着对方的眼睛,真诚的去道歉,也不失你的魅力呀?

    9.拥有忠诚互相信任的心 漫长岁月,我一直说,忠诚和互相信任是爱情的首要条件.记得,对于爱,专一些也何仿?真爱,就是要对方有一颗坦诚和真爱对方的心.忠诚,也是看你对大千世界抗拒诱惑的能力了.婚姻的唯一伟大之处,在于唯一的爱情,两颗心的互相忠诚.漫长岁月认为,在我们有限的生命里,如果真正的爱过一个人,那是世界上最快乐最幸福的事了.对于信任,我一直说,对任何人都信任,那是个错误.对任何人都不信任,那也是个错误.对于我们真心相爱的人,多些信任是应该的.对心爱人老疑神疑鬼的,累了自己,又毁灭爱,何必呢?怀疑也要有可靠证据吧.

    10.拥有奋发向上的心 漫漫人生路,我们在爱情,婚姻,事业,学业,家庭等等,难免会碰到些挫折,困境.没有绝望的处境,只有对处境绝望的人.爱也是.对于爱,没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的,没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的.为爱所伤,正常现象.但为了爱所伤就自抛自弃,甚至喊出越堕落,越快乐,破鞋破摔,都是不可取的.我们要抱着乐观的心态去爱,往前一步,就是进步.为了爱,我们必须拥有奋发向上的心.

    漫长岁月最后说:心态决定行为,行为决定习惯,习惯决定结果.事物永远是阴阳同存.积极的心态看到的永远是事物好的一面,而消极的心态只看到不好的一面.积极的心态能把坏的事情变好,而消极的心态能把好的事情变坏.愿天下有情人终归眷属!

   

   













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